Anyway... they've posted on the Lisa and Eric page, a quiz to figure out your love language. It is very powerful stuff to know! Imagine never feeling loved as a child because your family never wanted to hug you or cuddle with you--you never realizing that that was just not the way they expressed love, and them never understanding how important it was for you to receive affection through personal touch?!
Click Here to take the quiz and try to figure out the love languages of your family. It may just be the helping hand in making your children, husband, wife feel truly loved.
Here's my love language:
Acts of Service
Can vacuuming the floors really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he or she most want to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making more work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter.
Here's mine:
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This language isn’t all about the bedroom. A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, holding hands, and thoughtful touches on the arm, shoulder, or face–they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive.
I got acts of service, too.
ReplyDeleteWe never did much hugging or "I Love Yous" when I was growing up but I changed that when I had my daughter. We're all getting down right gushy now.
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this was one of the books they had at engaged encounter this past weekend. i heard it's a great tool!
ReplyDeleteWell said. Very nice blog :-)
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